Because of flashy media ads, zippy dialogue on news programs, fast food, instant contact via phone and techie gadgets, and of course instant facts via the internet, we expect instant information, instant answers, and instant gratification. We don't take the time to listen to someone's explanation of how they are feeling. If something requires that we read several pages to get the gist of something we will give up and move to something we can cover in one paragraph. If a speaker is getting to a point and laying a foundation for the case being made, and doesn't get to the point quick enough, we get exasperated. Therefore we miss out on a deep enjoyment and understanding of things like science, nature, music, the arts, literature and the nature of problems we face on the planet, and their possible solutions.